Monday, December 17, 2007

Fish Fry in December

Hello, again. A sincere thank you to everyone who left comforting posts. They really meant a lot to me. I don't often have really, really bad days. However, this time I really hit bottom. Having the kids here yesterday, the kind comments from you guys, and getting a lot of rest for the past few days all served to pick me up. I'm still sad but realize that life goes on. I did talk to my sister and she could respond. Time will tell what's next. She's still in Eisenhower Hospital in Palm Springs, CO.

We did have the fish fry yesterday. I pulled my big fish fryer out of storage, washed her, filled her with peanut oil and fired that baby up. I did batter some of the fish but I also fried some of it "nekked" as one son said. The hush puppies were things of joy to hear the kids tell it. I made them with beer and they were really crusty. I learned many years ago that if you have the oil hot enough when the food goes in the food forms an instant seal and doesn't soak up the oil. The trick still works. Harry and I strained and returned the oil to its original container and very little was missing. Now I have a large container of used peanut oil to dispose of. Minor detail. I might add that clean-up was a breeze. Oh yes, we had our usual green salad but with lots of add-ins for those who wanted them. Big yummy M&M cookies were dessert. No one went away hungry. Even the 4 year old sat up at the table and insisted on "spectin' for bones" under my watchful eye. Bones weren't an issue but the little ones are always encouraged to be mindful of possible bones anyway. Enough about fish fries.

I asked the grandsons if they would be really disappointed if I didn't put up a tree this year. They understood and said it was OK if I didn't. I'm so very glad about that. Everyone will be here Christmas Eve for the traditional "breakfast for dinner" and the children will get their gifts from us then. Santa will make his delivery later that night. Harry and I intend to have a very quiet Christmas Day together. We are very content to have it that way as long as we know the rest of our little family is happy. We'll just sit and hold hands like the two old farts that we are. . .maybe watch the Rose Bowl. . .maybe not.

Again, thanks to everyone for the kind words. Everyone get comfy, curl up, and dream wonderful dreams until morning calls. I intend to try.

6 comments:

Summer said...

I'm happy you're feeling better. Did you have sweet dreams?

AlabamaGal said...

The fish fry sounded wonderful and I love hushpuppies. My mouth always waters when you talk about your gatherings and the food you prepare. You sound like a great cook!

You just try to rest and enjoy your family during this time. If you ever need to talk, you can email me anytime. I am thinking of you and your sister.

P.S. Don't worry sweety, I am not in pain. If I hurt, I have pain medication.

((huge hug))
Michelle

simonsays said...

The fish sounds so good...

I am happy that you were able to talk to your sister. I hope she continues to improve.

Your Christmas day sounds great. I know what you mean about being happy as long as everyone in your family is happy...that's hard to manage, tho, at least in my tribe.

Have a good day today.

CRUSTYBEEF said...

I LOVE CRUSTY food! :)

I hope that your sister is doing well today! You guys are in my thoughts and prayers!
always,
Crusty~
Feel better, or drink your favorite warm sippy drink...indulge in a guilty pleasure..you really deserve it!

SOUL: said...

you sound good--- hope you feel good too.
all the family and food stuff sounds really good too--and obviously good for you.

i want some fish and chips now ;((

take care,
(i don't think i have ever said "good" so many times in such a short period of time)
oops.. it's nap time, and my limited vocabulary is proof of that i think.

Cheryl said...

I'm sure I'd love a fish fry with hushpuppies, especially if it was cooked by you. Did you use up a lot of the fish?

Christmas will be quiet here too. I'm looking forward to that. Sitting on the couch holding hands with your husband? You do realize how blessed you are, right?